A lot of us in the lifestyle worry about justifying ourselves.
Why do we like this? Why do we want it?
Why would you do something so crazy as sharing your wife with another guy in bed?
Sleep with another man, acting like a total slut, when you’re a married woman, when you were told it was wrong your whole life?
The thing is…
Sometimes you don’t have to explain yourself.
Do you pester your friend who likes the taste of french vanilla ice cream better than chocolate?
Do you get upset at people who don’t like the kind of music you like?
What’s your favorite color? Defend your answer!
Sexual tastes are like that too.
Yeah, there might be a reason why you get hard imagining your wife’s naked body touched, tasted, and penetrated by another man.
There might be a good explanation for why you get off teasing your husband, why you enjoy the feeling of arousing and even dominating him.
Cuckolding and hotwifing are sexual tastes. Preferences. French vanilla ice cream.
Some people hate the taste of coffee. Others can’t drink enough of it.
What brings you pleasure, what makes your relationship work, how you get off… that’s you. It’s who you are.
You don’t have to hate it. You don’t have to feel guilt about that.
And for sure you don’t have to justify your feelings and desires to other people. A person with red/green colorblindness can’t see the color red. That doesn’t make you wrong when you say red’s your favorite.
Cuckold kink is like this. Some people won’t ever get it. That’s not who they are. They can’t “see sex” on that wavelength.
But if you do experience this desire, male or female… you know there’s nothing quite like it.
Kinda like the bitter taste of coffee. You might have to acquire a taste for it, and once you do, there’s no going back…
Here’s the only answer you need: “It’s exciting”. That’s all.
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