To watch her affair or hear about it later?

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Posted by Arabella Blaze

It depends on what you’re into, doesn’t it?

A lot of guys with fantasies of sharing her will even tell you that it’s about watching his wife get with another guy. He wants to see the action.

Like a front-row seat to live porn, with his wife as the porn star.

That is a super-kinky situation, no doubt about it.

But it’s not always that simple.

Even though that visual imagery drives a lot of the cuckold fetish for men, it might not be practical.

She might be self-conscious. Her bull might not want another guy there.

She might not even be in the same town. Many cuckolding escapades happen while she’s physically away, on business, or in long-distance relationships. In that case, cuck will have to settle for stories and, just maybe, pics and video.

Some cucks even prefer to have her go off to play alone. That loss of control, the feeling of angst and worry and knowing she’s getting fucked good… wondering what she’s doing for him and what he’s doing with her… hits all the right notes of emotional and physical arousal.

Fear and sex aren’t all that different.

What he misses on the visuals, he more than makes up for with the feelings.

The best part, though, is the sensual details. The scent of her perfume. The feel of her body against you. The shape of her ass in the palm of your hand. Watching her bend over and slide her panties to the floor. Her naked (or near-naked) body in his arms as they make out.

Cuck doesn’t have to see this to enjoy the imagery. Whether he’s there or not, the key thing is to give him the experience of watching quietly as his wife gets laid.

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