Dating a girl in porn

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What if your wife did porn? Can married porn stars have strong relationships? Could you be married to a porn star?

That’s the question: Can you really be romantically involved with a woman who does sex work?

For a lot of men this is a serious fantasy. Who wouldn’t want to date the porn star?

Dating a girl in porn is like a kind of art.

What’s the allure? There’s the obvious.

Women in porn tend to be attractive, though that’s only the beginning.

You may not believe it but…

Her raw looks aren’t that important

Men do rank women on physical appearance, but this is only part of her attractiveness to him.

The real draw is her sexuality.

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Even a woman with average looks takes on a special glow of allure when a man knows she’s available for sex.

That’s because…

Sexuality is desirability

When your girlfriend does porn, you know she’s open to sex in all its possibilities.

In a traditional marriage, having sex outside the bounds of the relationship is forbidden.

It can even get you in trouble.

That comes at the cost of the staleness and boredom of the Dead Bedroom.

Willing cuckold husbands give up sexual exclusivity for the sake of excitement.

She has sex with other men because she is a more sexual woman.

Cuckold husbands gladly pay that price.

To them it’s not even a cost. It’s the thrill of sexual gratification.

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There’s a lot of downsides, too. Jealousy. Diseases.

She is having sex with other men for a living, after all.

Having a girlfriend in porn doesn’t give you free license for sex whenever and however you want it, either.

She’s still a person with her own needs and wants.

Off camera, she might not be what you imagine. She probably wants a man to take care of her away from the life of sex in front of the camera.

For many a cuckold, that’s exactly what he wants

He wants the allure of a sexy wife or girlfriend who acts like a total slut.

She plays the part for the camera.

Then she comes home to him.

Since his cuckold fantasy begins in his imagination, for all he might care, it can stay there too.

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