Not all kinds of sex involve putting Tab A into Slot B. There are a lot of reasons a couple might choose to do “other things”.
Rediscovering techniques that every horn-dog teenager knows by age 16 can also be part of your cuckolding or stag-and-vixen lifestyle.
In fact, some cuckold men find new kinds of arousal when denied the chance to make it all the way to home base.
In this article we’ll look at three reasons why cucked men like to be banned from nailing their special ladies:
- Pussy denial can be more rewarding and less humiliating if he finds it difficult to get an erection for sex.
- He might get more pleasure from imagining you in his mind than 30 seconds of dead-fish missionary.
- His wife, or her bull, may want exclusivity for the act of sexual intercourse.
He can’t get hard for PIV sex
Don’t laugh. As men age, testosterone levels drop, hormones change, and he’s no longer the randy 16 year old who could orgasm five times a day.
Even the demands of work and kids can be enough to depress a man’s arousal. This doesn’t mean he’s not into you or your sweet vag. It just means that the act of getting it up, and keeping it up, ain’t what it used to be.
Some men, understandably, feel ashamed, and even a little guilty that they can’t please their women the way they used to.
And let’s face it, the whole reason he’s into seeing you with other guys is because things have gotten a little stale around the old homestead.
Sexy scientists discovered what Calvin Coolidge knew a long time ago. Familiarity really does breed contempt… or at least indifference. The longer you’ve been together, the easier it is to slip into a rut.
When you ban him from the poonanny and put him on a handjobs only diet of gratification, you can perk his lil’ antenna right up, like you’re dating all over again.
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And you’ll be giving his mind a workout, which is great because…
Cuckold husbands like to imagine sex in their minds
Who doesn’t know that men are visual creatures when it comes to sex?
This is why there’s so much porn out there and women hardly watch any of it.
The “male gaze” isn’t just a feminist myth. Dudes really do like to look at titties and ass.
And, if Pornhub is any indicator, they like to watch women get laid. Inside, outside, upside down… doesn’t matter how, or even with what object is doing the penetrating. Men want to watch.
Voyeurism is a big motivator behind the cuckold lifestyle, too. If he hasn’t watched you fuck, you can guarantee he’s thought about it… and masturbated to it.
Probably a lot.
Plus:
When you tell him “no way” to your special slit, he’s got a lot more reason to imagine you getting it good and hard from that well-hung fella you’ve had your eye on.
He might even imagine that you don’t want his dick anymore. Which brings us to…
Cuckold wives should save intercourse for their bulls
What’s that? A cuckoldress can stop fucking her husband and reserve intercourse exclusively for her lovers?
Damn, that is… well, it’s a lot of things, but in your cuck’s mind, it’s the kind of over-the-top scenario that can make him cum without touching himself.
It makes sense in cuckold logic. He’s got to compete for access to her vag just like any other man. And if some other man just happens to tap it better than he can?
Well, a girl doesn’t want to think of herself as a slut, right?
If she’s only fucking one guy — and he’s the one hitting it deep and hard — why should she give her husband the privilege just because they made some vows?
For the hardcore cuck, this is the ultimate torment and the ultimate pleasure. She comes home from her date used and smelling like sex, while he gets a handjob and blows his load into a tissue.
If you’re a man and you stood at “attention” reading this, wishing your wife would ban you from her pussy, well, why not bring it up to her?
Worst thing she can say is “no”… and you might get that unorthodox sex life you’ve been dreaming about.
Won’t this cause some friction for the happily married couple? If a wife is exclusively banging one guy, who is not the man named on the joint bank account, why wouldn’t she just be, well, that guy’s wife?
The cuckold relationship doesn’t work that way, for the cuckold husband or his wife playing the role of the cuckoldress.
Just because she’s giving her bull exclusive access to intercourse doesn’t mean she isn’t having a lively sex life with her husband.
Cuckold play should always be done in the confines of a healthy and loving, if open and experimental, relationship.
Strange as it sounds to civilian ears, she’s fucking other guys, and turning down her husband, because she loves him and because this pleases him more than the usual frustrating intercourse that passes for sex in ‘mature’ couples. (Mature as in, been together a long time… they don’t have to be mature as in old.)
She isn’t denying her husband. She’s giving him something that satisfies both of their needs better than vanilla monogamy.
Summing it up
A cuckold husband might enjoy getting handjobs more than penis-in-vagina intercourse with his wife for three reasons:
- He can’t get hard for intercourse
- He prefers imagining you getting pleasure from another man
- The cuckold wife may decide to give her bull exclusive access to her pussy
Kinky couples, give this one a try. Even if you’re not into the wife-sharing angle.
If you’re knew to tease & denial play, take a month off the PIV sex and limit your fella to handjobs only while he pleases you with his mouth.
You’ll experience a new kind of intimacy and a whole different level of erotic tension between the two of you.
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